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I have been married for 7yrs now with 3 kids, the youngest is 5yrs old, for the past 4yrs i have been the one supporting the family financially, from feeding to school fees everything and it has been so depressing, the most anonnyoing part is that my husband has a high standard of living, i was not born with a silver spoon, even when he is broke he still lives like a rich man, he spends my money on things i dont approve of, i cry almost everyday because of his spending habit, he is not even doing anything about getting a job or even starting a bussiness.i feel like a slave an eduacted one, the latest thing he did that i got fed up was when he too a loan of 2m to put in ponzi scheme, the ponzi scheme is 30% and the loan he is paying 15% interest.that is not enough for him , someone introduced him to another ponzi scheme that pays 100% and he carried 1m from the loan and put , its more than a month now he has not been paid, he even carried my 550k that i was saving in his account to add ...

Hello House, Yesterday, my husband told me that during his NYSC days, he had a girlfriend in the state he was serving while we were dating. This was really surprising to me because he told me about all his escapades before we marry but he has never mentioned this NYSC girlfriend to me. I was serving in Abia state and he was serving in Ekiti state and he never gave me peace of mind, he wanted to know all I was doing in Abia state and never let me get too close to any guy meanwhile he had a girlfriend in Ekiti state and the girl was even visiting him in his house in Lagos. After telling me this, I was really surprised because during that period I really trusted him. Now am scared that now that we are married, he might have a girlfriend somewhere and when I look at him all I see is distrust. Please how do I handle this?

I live in a house with three flats and in one flat I have this couple who are my friends, the man is fairly educated and his wife is an illiterate. The both of them quarrel regularly and since I am not a busybody , I do not interfere , all I do is listen but something has got me worried when listening to their quarrel, the woman always use the child's paternity to insult the man, some of the insults go like this "Idiot man" "Lazy man" "Okobo" "Leave my children, nor be you get them, I go carry them go meet who born them" "Nor touch my children ooo,leave them for their papa" Surely this insults infuriate the man and his sometimes beat his wife, I myself who is more reasonable think his three children are not really his, The wife is a trader and comes home at irregular times which also lead to quarrels , the children also do not have some facial characteristics of the said man. I want to advise the man to do a DNA test ( only ...

Good morning. Since morning I have not been able to get up from my bed even as I couldn't sleep well last night because my heart has been troublesome. I have this married lady classmate/friend in her middle 20s while I'm in my early 30s (unmarried). I met her in school during registration (MSc) and since then we exchanged numbers and became friends. Her husband is in abroad and have not been to Nigeria since 3 years ago while she was still pregnant of her 2nd child. Some 3 weeks ago, she started telling me how she feels lonely in the house and how she has not been with a man since 3 years ago, complaining that it's not easy for her. I tried my best in advising her to start up something that will keep her busy apart from school, as such will take her mind off feeling lonely. She reasoned with me and thanked me. Still in same week, she literally asked me out, telling me how she loved me and how I'm the only person she has gathered morale to ask out since she was born.(...

I've been dating her for close to 8months now, and at first she didn't want to make love up-to 5 minutes. I thought at first, maybe because we were just starting to date so she didn't trust me. Now we are engaged and arrangements for wedding is in place and still exactly the same experience. Today's own was like 1 minutes 30 seconds of penetration and she said it was okay. We don't make love often maybe once a month, but everytime we do, this is always the case and I'm starting to get frustrated. Is this normal? Please what can be done about this?

A friend of mine is going through this right now and she needs advise. she is in love with a guy from Benin, they both love each other. when the guy talked about marrying the girl to his family they said Capital NO cause of the girl tribe. The girl is from Akwa Ibom. The family had an issue many years back when their Uncle married an Akwa Ibom woman and they had serious issues in their marriage and then they divorce, so since then the family cause of the experience said no one from their family will ever marry from Akwa Ibom but can marry any other tribe. The whole family of the guy is saying no that he cant marry my friend cause of her tribe. My friends fiance will never give up cause of how much he loves the girl. My friend is really going through a lot now. please i need good advise so i can encourage her with it.

Hello sir, I just remarried my old sch mate. i told him how badly my ex treated me. he has been so loving to me and my sons. my worries are that he said his first wife was bad but is it normal to abuse mother of 3 kids on facebook, including her parents? he is always talking bad about her even to strangers. he doesnt send any upkeep to his kids. i pay my own bills but my fear is tht 'can a good man behave like this? we went to his kids school to visit and he was shouting and embarassing his kids cursing their mom. is he pretending to me or did the wife hurt him badly?