Good morning.
Since morning I have not been able to get up from my bed even as I couldn't sleep well last night because my heart has been troublesome.
I have this married lady classmate/friend in her middle 20s while I'm in my early 30s (unmarried).
I met her in school during registration (MSc) and since then we exchanged numbers and became friends. Her husband is in abroad and have not been to Nigeria since 3 years ago while she was still pregnant of her 2nd child. Some 3 weeks ago, she started telling me how she feels lonely in the house and how she has not been with a man since 3 years ago, complaining that it's not easy for her. I tried my best in advising her to start up something that will keep her busy apart from school, as such will take her mind off feeling lonely. She reasoned with me and thanked me. Still in same week, she literally asked me out, telling me how she loved me and how I'm the only person she has gathered morale to ask out since she was born.(#na wash, that what I think) I immediately made her know it's not possible and she apologized for making the move and begged me we still remain friends, I accepted. Though she still chip in hanging out with me, but we never had. Now, the problem is that, she discussed with the husband and the husband had to call me yesterday afternoon that I should do the do with her wife, that they both agreed on it. I was weakened when he told me that I will be saving his marriage if I do that for him, and that I should mention my price.
I have been so confused as to what will make a man agree to such thing... As in is he impotent or what? But they had 2 kids already.
I told the man I can't and has not spoken to the wife since then but my mind has never been at rest. Especially when I remember he said it will save his marriage.
I used truecaller to view the picture of the man and it's the same with the pictures of the man I have been seeing with my married friend on Facebook.
Now why I brought this issue here is for people to advice me on the easiest way to handle this situation maturedly. Thanks
Since morning I have not been able to get up from my bed even as I couldn't sleep well last night because my heart has been troublesome.
I have this married lady classmate/friend in her middle 20s while I'm in my early 30s (unmarried).
I met her in school during registration (MSc) and since then we exchanged numbers and became friends. Her husband is in abroad and have not been to Nigeria since 3 years ago while she was still pregnant of her 2nd child. Some 3 weeks ago, she started telling me how she feels lonely in the house and how she has not been with a man since 3 years ago, complaining that it's not easy for her. I tried my best in advising her to start up something that will keep her busy apart from school, as such will take her mind off feeling lonely. She reasoned with me and thanked me. Still in same week, she literally asked me out, telling me how she loved me and how I'm the only person she has gathered morale to ask out since she was born.(#na wash, that what I think) I immediately made her know it's not possible and she apologized for making the move and begged me we still remain friends, I accepted. Though she still chip in hanging out with me, but we never had. Now, the problem is that, she discussed with the husband and the husband had to call me yesterday afternoon that I should do the do with her wife, that they both agreed on it. I was weakened when he told me that I will be saving his marriage if I do that for him, and that I should mention my price.
I have been so confused as to what will make a man agree to such thing... As in is he impotent or what? But they had 2 kids already.
I told the man I can't and has not spoken to the wife since then but my mind has never been at rest. Especially when I remember he said it will save his marriage.
I used truecaller to view the picture of the man and it's the same with the pictures of the man I have been seeing with my married friend on Facebook.
Now why I brought this issue here is for people to advice me on the easiest way to handle this situation maturedly. Thanks
Do it and incur the wrath of God. You will die young I can assure you young man. Don't go near her again...not even a platonic outing. Ok
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